You may have already started celebrate Family pride month, whether by talking to your kids about what it means to identify as LGBTQ, researching local events, or leaning into rainbow crafts and baked goods. But if your child identifies as LGBTQ, you might be wondering what else you can or should do to recognize the month.
Interrogate them how they want to celebrate
First of all, it’s important to recognize that while you can come up with all the ideas in the world, and cover your house with rainbows, and make a list of all the local events you can attend together, your celebrations should ultimately reflect your child’s needs and feelings. Maybe they want the whole family to cram in the car on their way to the local pride festival, or maybe they’d rather go with a friend (or not celebrate at all). Tell them you want to recognize the month and celebrate their individuality, But also that you want to respect all limits or priorities they may have.
They may already have ideas or they may not want to do much at all. Follow their lead on this—but if they want to celebrate or recognize the month and don’t know how, here are some ideas you might suggest, or do it yourself.
Offer to organize a pride party
You are, hopefully, willing (and happy) to attend whatever pride events they would like to go to, but if they would prefer the celebration to be smaller and more private, you can offer to host your own party. pride at home. Who they might want to invite or what this party might look like will vary depending on whether they are addressing their family and friends and how supportive they have been.
You can plan the celebration in whatever way works best for them, from a loud and colorful bash at a small gathering of their closest and most supportive loved ones.
Host a family LGBTQ movie night (or nights)
Chances are there is a plethora of films that explore modern LGBTQ history that you’ve never seen – now is the time! As Ross Johnson recently wrote for Lifehacker:
There are as many paths to explore queer history as there are people who have lived it, and many legends we have almost forgotten which, in a fairer world, would be household names. History can be inspirational, and can also help us avoid making the same damn mistakes over and over again, mistakes like forgetting that trans people of color were at the forefront of gay liberation.
Pride is a time to celebrate, honor and remember everything whether you are trans, bi, ace, poly, pan, intersex, non-binary, or anywhere else on the spectrum of identity and expression. gender and sexual … or just proud to support your queer friends.
Johnson has made a list of 30 of the most important queer movies ever made, which you can find here. Have everyone in the family choose a movie (or three), pop some popcorn, and start watching.
Consider how inclusive your own home is
It’s great to talk to your child about how to recognize the month, but pride is something that should extend throughout the month. year, especially within your house. Inclusiveness, love, and support are things they’ll need in July and August as well, and there may be ways you are inadvertently do not showing them tgarden hose things.
Be aware of how your own language may need updating to become more inclusive. You may want to start using more terms like “partner” or “other important person” rather than boyfriend or girlfriend, and avoid things gender specific by describing them “girlish” or “manly.” And certainly, absolutely use their favorite pronouns.
If the predominant imagery in your home depicts heterosexual people of the cis gender, look for ways to diversify and add more inclusive imagery and media to your. everyday life. You can also donate to support an LGBTQ organization in honor of your child and tell them you did.